Memories.....savour the fond ones
There were two friends....the best and thickest of the kind you can imagine.
When they were Teenagers:
They shared their good times, bad times, thoughts and were with each other through the ups and downs. They had the same wavelength in their thinking which was the greatest bond between them. Even without speaking out loud, they could understand not only their feelings but also read their minds.
In their early 20's:
Time went past and they were getting busy with their life ahead but still found time for each other and had a jolly good time together. They went to the movies, restaurants, picnics etc & had a whale of good time. They knew they always had the support of the other in all their ventures & a ready shoulder to cry on too.
5 years later:
Everything was going on very well & smooth. No hassles at all. If at all any, were sorted immediately & that only made the bond grow stronger.
But there was a fright, for a reason. Their future might tend to separate them. OMG! Wish we can still be together....that was their sincere prayer. And wow! their prayers were answered after a small separation of 2 years.
After 2 years:
They were so glad that they could meet and be in the same place. But....times had changed....or rather people change with time. They were still close but not as before. The calls, outings, & the good times together shortened as the years went past. And the distance kept growing.
3 years later:
Whenever they met - Oh hi! howdy? Are things well with u & ur family? Whats news @ ur side? They were just more than acquaintances.
And they wondered...did anything go wrong? Why this distance? R v just too busy with our lives, families, careers? Or new friends replaced old? Or plain just no time for friends any more? Or "don't care" attitude?
They just decided to stick to the sweet past memories - " U know, I used to have such a close friend.........few years ago" and they linger & relish on that sweet thought.
When they were Teenagers:
They shared their good times, bad times, thoughts and were with each other through the ups and downs. They had the same wavelength in their thinking which was the greatest bond between them. Even without speaking out loud, they could understand not only their feelings but also read their minds.
In their early 20's:
Time went past and they were getting busy with their life ahead but still found time for each other and had a jolly good time together. They went to the movies, restaurants, picnics etc & had a whale of good time. They knew they always had the support of the other in all their ventures & a ready shoulder to cry on too.
5 years later:
Everything was going on very well & smooth. No hassles at all. If at all any, were sorted immediately & that only made the bond grow stronger.
But there was a fright, for a reason. Their future might tend to separate them. OMG! Wish we can still be together....that was their sincere prayer. And wow! their prayers were answered after a small separation of 2 years.
After 2 years:
They were so glad that they could meet and be in the same place. But....times had changed....or rather people change with time. They were still close but not as before. The calls, outings, & the good times together shortened as the years went past. And the distance kept growing.
3 years later:
Whenever they met - Oh hi! howdy? Are things well with u & ur family? Whats news @ ur side? They were just more than acquaintances.
And they wondered...did anything go wrong? Why this distance? R v just too busy with our lives, families, careers? Or new friends replaced old? Or plain just no time for friends any more? Or "don't care" attitude?
They just decided to stick to the sweet past memories - " U know, I used to have such a close friend.........few years ago" and they linger & relish on that sweet thought.
21 Comments:
At 5:39 PM, Patty said…
What a bitersweet blog. Thank you! Reminded me of all the special people that have passed through my life, if only for a short time. We are better for the love and laughter in our relationships. That saying "It is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all," could just as easily subtituted "had special friendships" for the word loved. Thanks again, cyber friend!
At 9:00 AM, Has to be me said…
Patty :
Very apt use of words - "Bitter sweet" indeed! And u r v.right in saying better 2 b loved than not.
At 8:19 PM, Patty said…
Hey Has to be me,
Got your comment on my site. Thanks. Upon looking at baby Lily again, I was thinking that instead of a look of love, she is looking at me like "Boy! Is she a big boob,or what?" (And we both know how most babies feel about boobs. Ha ha!)
After thinking about friends that have lost touch, due to reading your blog, I heard from two of them yesterday. Thanks for stiring up the universe, prompting them to call me.
Do you mind if I put a link to your site on my site?
I like your county counter, and am thinking of adding it to my site.
You have a good weekend too. Enjoy your babies.
At 10:24 PM, Scoot said…
bitter sweet indeed.this is what has happened with all my friends and the ones I know now don't seem to have time for me.hoping that things change soon.but it's just a hope
nice blog
cheers
At 11:09 AM, Has to be me said…
Patty,
So glad that 2 of ur friends gotta call ya. That's lovely. Pls do feel free to link up my site & the country counter as well.
Have a good day!
At 11:10 AM, Has to be me said…
Maya,
Welcome 2 my blog. Sure let's hope for the better. :)
At 5:37 PM, smiley said…
if they were beer pals i don't think the friendship meetings would have stopped like this :)
At 11:37 PM, Patty said…
Dear Maya,
Try acting like the friend you want to attract. (Some say "Fake it, till you make it.")
Also, dig up some Feng Shui books, and make sure your relationship, and helpful people areas in your home are in tip-top shape. Before you laugh me off, NO KIDDING...... all I did was sweep off my front porch, sat in various chairs around the house (instead of the one I normally sat in) and slept on the other side of my bed every other night. Two weeks later I met my husband. We married 363 days after we met.
Wishing you good friends, love, and laughter!
At 10:42 AM, Has to be me said…
Smiley
LOL! Good one! :)
At 2:41 PM, Has to be me said…
Hi Raz,
Welcome...glad u liked it. sorry 2 note abt ur best buddy. Looks like v gotta learn to take them in our stride.
Hmmmm,....ya fortunately & unfortunately it has happened 2 me as well.
At 4:43 PM, Kavitha Jay said…
heyy...reminds me of lot of things pa...hmm i guess this is called life...lot of changes..with some smiles and tears..
At 7:19 AM, Has to be me said…
Mystery,
Hope it gave u all pleasant memories! Yup, life is indeed made of smiles n tears.
At 7:25 AM, Has to be me said…
Raz
Guess what, it was guy too. Infact what u'd mentioned was so similar to mine! Like u said we were just friends & that too so close....& we too did prove that guy n gal can just be true n pure friends.
Also on 2nd thots, it has happened with 2 other gals as well but there are atleast some reasons for the distance & also they dont live in the same place as me.
And yes these 3 people have touched my heart very deeply and for sure will have a very special place in my heart for the rest of my life!
And coincidently, all 3 of them are aries! Strange isnt it?!
At 10:00 AM, Has to be me said…
Raz....LOL!!! I am so surprised that u thot that I was a guy!!!! ha ha! I thot it was rather obvious esp with my other post (It's a man's world) & I somehow feel that I sound feminine!! ;) I believe in horoscope for the fun of it!
At 3:19 PM, KC! said…
:( same blood..
At 3:19 PM, KC! said…
UK-nu potruka 1 visitor naandhan ;) One and the only :))
At 3:28 PM, Has to be me said…
Usha, that's reality & yup I thot so that it was u!!
At 4:42 PM, Has to be me said…
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At 2:29 PM, Scoot said…
patty: that's so sweet of you.now am going to get the ball rolling like you said.thanks:)
At 2:21 PM, Me too said…
So true! They say 'Absence makes the heart grow fonder' but in many cases it becomes 'out of sight, out of mind', huh?
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