Love & Hurt
What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you see the above mentioned words - "Love and Hurt"?
It is strange, but aren't they kind of synonymous? Cos if u r in love, u r bound to get hurt! And funnily we all seek love in one way or the other!
All relationships where ever love is involved, you tend to get hurt, either by their actions or by their words. There will be a moment when u feel hurt by the person u love. You might tend to patch up & continue smoothly yet again with them, but then why is it that we get so hurt albeit for that fraction of a second? Too much love eh?! ;)
It is strange, but aren't they kind of synonymous? Cos if u r in love, u r bound to get hurt! And funnily we all seek love in one way or the other!
All relationships where ever love is involved, you tend to get hurt, either by their actions or by their words. There will be a moment when u feel hurt by the person u love. You might tend to patch up & continue smoothly yet again with them, but then why is it that we get so hurt albeit for that fraction of a second? Too much love eh?! ;)
posted by Has to be me @ 2:43 PM
36 Comments:
At 4:49 PM,
prithz said…
It hurts very very badly... plz dutn remind me abt that... i jus hope the person with whom i think i share so much frndship and love comes bk to me... reciprocates all the care i have...truely.. madly..deeply wish....
y does it hurt... i have no answer... it hurts.. its makes me sick... it doesnt allow me to think.. dats all i know
At 5:30 PM,
KK said…
I think it hurts because of the love we have for that person...Imagine if a stranger says something we would just rub it off and go on...but if the same thing is told by someone whom you love dearly, it hurts really bad...
Amount of hurt is directly proportional to the amount of love.
At 6:42 PM,
Pavithra said…
I second KK's thought.. I think that's exactly the truth. To add on, Amount of hurt is exponential to the amount of love.
At 7:26 PM,
Harish said…
No Pain no Gain...No love no hurt
At 8:14 PM,
Syam said…
since pavithra seconds KK's thought...I third KK's thought.... :-)
At 9:56 PM,
Rajesh &Shankari said…
yep love is word...
At 1:09 AM,
Priya said…
H2bee,
Its part of life. You can never be happy 100% and need few sorrow moments in life too. That is wat hurt is and hurt can be different based on situations.
To love/ not to love itself can be hurt, our expectations are damn high right...
Love and hurt are balanced with our understanding. Some like to hurt with power, money and attitude and some hurt coz they do not have it.
At 4:44 AM,
Junius said…
yaa...love hurts, but remember - 'no pain....no gain...'
soo...love... love... love... love........keep loving....
At 5:26 AM,
starry said…
I think you feel the hurt when you truly love. because if you did not love then you wont be hurt. nice post.
At 7:00 AM,
Sangeeta Ananth said…
Its a vicious circle!
At 7:47 AM,
srijithunni said…
I agree with starry.. It`s with people you truly love that you bother to get hurt, when something happens, or unless you`re completely disgusted..
With Best Regards,
Srijith
At 7:54 AM,
Has to be me said…
Browneye,
True expectations is the root cause.
Prithz,
Ohhh so sad. I truly wish & pray that the person does come back 2 u. Hugzzz. take care.
KK,
Well said! But thats the sad part of love - tht it is directly proportional to hurt!
At 7:56 AM,
Has to be me said…
Pavi,
Right & yes truth is bitter! :p
Harish,
LOL! True! No pain no gain!
Syam,
Ipadi solli thapikalamnu pakaraygala?! ;)
At 7:58 AM,
Has to be me said…
Shankari,
Hmmm love is the word??
Priya,
Nicely put in. Life does need a mix of joy & sorrow.
Ende,
Ya good way....to keep on loving...thanks pal. :)
At 8:02 AM,
Has to be me said…
Starry,
Thats exactly my point.....true love shdnt hurt isnt it?! It shd only give us more love n joy!
Sangeeta,
Yup its never ending too!
Srijith,
I only wish true love didnt hurt much! :)
At 9:01 AM,
Vishnu said…
adikara kai than anaigum.... anaikeri kai than adikum.....
Cheers!
:)
At 9:04 AM,
Anand said…
well good questions..but like they say..two sides to every coin..maybe love and hurt are just two sides of the same coin!
At 2:35 PM,
Hip Grandma said…
you love,get hurt and patch up only because you love.this makes your love grow and helps you bond more.this goes on and on till a stage comes when you don't get hurt-you only understand.
At 3:10 PM,
Patty said…
Do you think the reason we get hurt is because we allow ourselves to be hurt by the words or actions of the person we love? I am sure most would agree that someone that loves us would not set out to intentionally hurt us, so if indeed we do perceive that they hurt us, don't we need to own some responsibility for that hurt?
I think the only way to get over hurt from a loved one is to take some of the responsibility and decide that you want to move beyond the hurt and back to towards the love.
Do I ALWAYS do this? Of course not. But when I do manage to do so, It ALWAYS works.
At 3:54 PM,
Anonymous said…
A firster here and there's love and hurt to be discussed about... Love and burgers.. That would be my area of expertise.. ;)
At 4:31 PM,
SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said…
Only someone who means tht much to you and who loves you can make yo hurt is wht is said...Personally I am more sensitive when people I hurt say the slightest thing or even raise their voices to the sligest maount...But why does one want love when hurt is attached is coz for thos eprecious moments of love, you will realise with time tht you r getting hurt and its not the others one tht is intentionally hurting u...I realised this last week n I am no more hurt as I relaised I control my feeling..Well atleast in an instance when there is no intention of hurting but I got hurt, so I dont get no more like before! sounds crazy I am sure
At 7:16 PM,
s0ulasylum said…
love & hate.. and whn they collide.. disaster!:)
reminds me of these lines..
love like u've never loved before
hurt like u'll never love therefore
contradictory but true i guess! :)
At 4:23 AM,
Ekta said…
theres a good and bad to everything..nothing in life is perfect..and yes love is beautiful but no matter how perfect it is...it still always has some bit if hurt!
At 6:14 AM,
Keshi said…
**What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you see the above mentioned words - "Love and Hurt"?
Thats they r siblings :)
Well yes...in love u r bound to get hurt. Thats cos when u love someone there's some expectation to be loved back teh same way. And when that expectation falls short, we have misunderstandings and tears. Cos everyone's expectations r different.
Keshi.
At 8:10 AM,
Has to be me said…
Vish,
Hmm, well said!
Anand,
Noted, its like heads u win, tails, I loose!!! :)
Hip,
Wow, Im waiting to reach that stage then! Wud come with age & experience I guess eh?
At 8:16 AM,
Has to be me said…
Patty,
Right. I wld assume that its all unintentional then! Cos that makes it more convienent!
Luna,
Hmm so u r the expert eh?! Good. Welcome 2 my blog & hope that some of ur expertisewud rub off on me!
Scribz,
Thanks gal! Like they say too much of amrutham is also visham, I guess too much love also gets us into too much hurt! But yes we do crave fr those precious moments & glad that u cud control ur self! Way 2 go gal!
At 8:18 AM,
Has to be me said…
s0ul,
Thats a good quote for sure!
Ekta,
Sure love is the good part!!
Keshi
LOL @ siblings! Yup, expectations is the root cause of the evil hurt!
At 9:27 AM,
Dh@v@! said…
First thing came to my mind was...
"Love hurts"
At 12:55 PM,
Shiv said…
yea..very true...:) But the hurt is sweet wen it is for the person whom you love!!
At 1:05 PM,
Anonymous said…
Love hurts that's all I can say....
Its rightly said, "To love is to invite others to break your heart...
At 4:57 PM,
Ganesh Ranganathan said…
Anyone who falls in love will ge hurt sooner or later...
At 6:41 PM,
quills said…
I think you have answered your own question. :) Too much love. Loving someone so deeply has its consequences unfortunately. Wish it wasn't so though, but that I don't think will ever stop me from loving that special someone. :)But I do wish, hurt is something that would stay far far away in one's most precious relationship. Matters of the heart can never be explained by a mere mortal I suppose.
At 5:53 AM,
Anonymous said…
its strange....u seem to write so much in tune with what's happening in my life!! :D
no more details will be given ;)
At 8:56 AM,
Has to be me said…
dh@v@!,
Hmmm, smart u!!! :)
Shiv,
Wow, u seem to be taking things well in ur stride!
Shakhi,
LOL! Good saying!
At 8:58 AM,
Has to be me said…
Ganesh,
True but still we all fall for love!
Quills,
Ya girl...too much love does have its -ve effect too. And ya sure, ur someone sp is indeed damn lucky to have u! :)))
Chandni,
Hmmm looks like I can mind read!!!:D
At 1:33 PM,
Pritika Gupta said…
Are yaar truely said.. u often hurt the people u love most...
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