Annoyed
These were the top 3 latest things that annoyed me in the recent past!
3. One of my friend's wife (who is still an acquaintance to me) met me @ the shopping mall car park unexpectedly. She was trying to slyly look into my shopping trolley to see what all was in it! How sick! I mean of what concern is it to her what I shop?
2. I met this old man (a client of mine) and we were in a general discussion about the economy, Government, etc. And during the discussion he casually said this which pissed me off totally! "Thankfully my daughter in law doesnt have to work cos my son is doing very well in his career & earning enuff". How disgusting for him to think that women go to work only to earn money.
1. This one takes the cake. I did a favour for another client of mine this morning. Unfortunately he has a senior partner (in another business) cum relative (who is also a local big wig), & has an attitude problem. The gentleman I deal with, was trying to be so nice to me & this other man had to be arrogant & says its my duty to do so & speaks as if he is favouring me! Eik! Even if u cant show ur thankfulness & be nice, ppl can atleast not say rude things!
Has anything annoyed u recently? Do share.
3. One of my friend's wife (who is still an acquaintance to me) met me @ the shopping mall car park unexpectedly. She was trying to slyly look into my shopping trolley to see what all was in it! How sick! I mean of what concern is it to her what I shop?
2. I met this old man (a client of mine) and we were in a general discussion about the economy, Government, etc. And during the discussion he casually said this which pissed me off totally! "Thankfully my daughter in law doesnt have to work cos my son is doing very well in his career & earning enuff". How disgusting for him to think that women go to work only to earn money.
1. This one takes the cake. I did a favour for another client of mine this morning. Unfortunately he has a senior partner (in another business) cum relative (who is also a local big wig), & has an attitude problem. The gentleman I deal with, was trying to be so nice to me & this other man had to be arrogant & says its my duty to do so & speaks as if he is favouring me! Eik! Even if u cant show ur thankfulness & be nice, ppl can atleast not say rude things!
Has anything annoyed u recently? Do share.
posted by Has to be me @ 11:02 AM
29 Comments:
At 3:03 PM,
s0ulasylum said…
this post just abt made my day! moronic bunch we live with!
im so mad at a coupla ppl i know.. nothing prepares u for the shock of hearing bad things being sad abt u .. esply by the people who are ur frnds or rather u thought were ur frnds.. thts downright disgusting!
At 3:20 PM,
Known Stranger said…
yes my image in mirror . i am forced to get my hair cut. it annoys me..
it is forced to happen because divinly it is written already
At 5:09 PM,
SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said…
Hey....Woo u do get irritated pretty fast...Let me think from another shoe (if this irritates you, do add this to your list ...;) )
Instance 1) Well its none of her business to look into my shopping basket but maybe she admires you and wants to buy similar things..Tht happens very often..Take it as a complimet or tht your basket is very attractive...:)
Instance 2: Well, I am not sure which cultural background he is from or his social level..In many cases people still believe tht two incomes are required and if one person is earning a lot then the two incomes are not required....Not al of us work because we want the two incomes nor do we like someone to say tht openly but some ppl feel like tht n take it in tht way, silly n weird from our perspective and shallow from their perspective
Instance 3: hihihi...more hihihi....If I were you I would told him something sacastic like "You mean I am rude to you always??" , bash my innocent eyelids and rest the case...
But these r nice examples...When we want to be irritated we get irritated so fast...I too get pissed rather fast but now am cooling it off as have realised thts its me who is getting irritated and I should never let it get to me....I may crib for hours though :)
At 5:35 PM,
Priya said…
H2bee:
1. If you fried tried to check your cart, you shud ask, hey did you find something interesting so I can double to price for you.
2. Old man must be tired of women I think. Give him a viagra, he will grow up.
3. Some men never bend. If you had thrown few dollars, he wud have picked it up...
Just kididng don't take it serious.
I get annoyed when I see desi ppl' hang on to get them into business called quickstar. Hell no!!
I run to get away from them. Sorry if any qucikstar guys here.
They will talk as if they r knew(but they will reside ther) and ask for directions/shop. Poor me try to help and get invovled without knowing the outcome.
Now I and my husband flee if any desi's come close to us...
At 9:07 PM,
KK said…
I guess everyone gets annoyed for some reason or other...Its quite natural...but cool it off soon...I dont let it affect me....
One of the common times when I get annoyed is when I tell a person to do something in a particular way and if he/she doesnt do it that way...
At 9:42 PM,
Harish said…
I do get annoyed...but try to chill of as I fear i may carry it over others. But these examples are sick yaar.
You could have told the old man "Thank god my father in law doesnt have to work as we two earn quite more than handfull" :-)
btw..i have posted my stupid version of story. Thanks a ton for taking it forward in ur blog.
At 10:24 PM,
Butterflies said…
At times the attitude of people sucks what to do?
At 10:30 PM,
Patty said…
What I find interesting is that something that annoyes me enough to make me scream and pout one day, will have no affect what so ever another day. Could it be me? Really?
I know you read my blog posts, and I know you know how much the public school systems annoyes me. That one pretty much stays a constant with me!
At 11:22 PM,
SeePearrl said…
some ppl are just like that...you can never change them!!
At 3:10 AM,
Known Stranger said…
1. if the attitude is your boss - bear it till you change your company
2. heiheihe - tell him you loved to marry his daughter in law who is so nice to give freedom to her husband about making the decision of not allowing her to deciede on her career
3. if a lady peeps so - just shuffel your bag - dig the the condoms yearly pack from bottom of the bag and keep it visible well or a sanitary napkin just before her.
At 7:19 AM,
Shanthi said…
Recently i got annoyed when one of the senior person in my team asked me whether i will do it or he needs to reassign it to someone else -> this man put all the projects he was handling on my head (and was luckily assigned a senior position) and am also assigned a new project in addition. i felt so bad when he asked this when he is very well aware that i am overloaded. it was in front of all new people in my team/office and some more senior people and peers... i smiled and said "thats too much" (meaning neenga paesuradhu romba jaasthi)... i could have very well got angry and complained... but i chose to smile and say that i know my i responsibilities... next day i went and said abt my status also in the project and he felt happy listening to it.
onnum pandradhukkuleenga... kandukaama vitrunum if some ppl do something thats not fair.
At 7:37 AM,
Keshi said…
ofcourse they sound like super annoying ppl!
If I were u I wud have told that lady who peeked in ur shopping trolly to take anything she wants from it.
Has anything annoyed me lately? Not lately, it happens everyday! Someone somehow manages to either bore me to death (rather to rebirth) with their bullsh#t or say some rude stuff just cos they r unhappy ppl. I just laugh it off cos some ppl in this world dun have the knack to be un-annoying.
The very recent:
Someone close to me tells me I act like a 16-yr old. Why did she say it? Cos of my new mobile! How does that make me a 16yr old? I was bloody annoyed but I left it then n there. Cos I dun wanna be argueing with a dumbo.
Keshi.
At 7:41 AM,
Anand said…
well,
i get annoyed by a lotta things everyday!
People at work say and do things that annoy me often but these days am trying to work on the "ignorance is bliss" policy!
At 7:45 AM,
Anonymous said…
oh yes! A few days ago I was at the local mother dairy booth to pick up milk and curd etc..
this guy come from behind....merrily PUSHES me aside and very casually goes ahead to order..
I was hopping mad that day and gave him the sound dressing down he deserved!
I dont understand why people behave in this fashion when it is absolutely unnecessary and uncalled for!
At 8:53 AM,
Ekta said…
well my work shirking chinese colleague annoys me like hell..but with time am learning to ignore her!!
At 9:23 AM,
Aditi said…
Wouldnt your shopping be in bags though, so she was really trying to ascertain where you were shop?
Wierd and yea all are fairly annoying.. No recent annoyances i can think of to list but my tolerance level has gone up recently
At 9:42 AM,
Has to be me said…
s0ul,
Oh ya, tell me abt those morons!
KS,
How much I laffed @ ur comment! So funny!!!! :D
Browny,
:)
At 10:23 AM,
Has to be me said…
Scribz,
Oh thats nice way of looking @ these things! No way did I get annoyed of what u said dear! How cud I cos u r such a sweety! Thanks & I like ur thinking.
case 1 - might be true like u said & I never thot abt it that way. I know for a fact that her hubby admires me a lot fr my capabilities & even says that he does rub those things into her & well maybe so she was indeed trying to imitate me!
2. I think u r right again here too...cos he is a v.conservative person & from a conservative culture too. And maybe that's what prompted him to say so.
3. ha ha! I think he behaved that way cos he feels he's a big powerful guy anwayz!
And also not that these things really bother me...as in not gone into the heart....but I just got annoyed & tried to remain cool & ignored all the 3 instances! I too get irritated too faast but normally cool off also fastly! I didnt even crib abt it to anyone (in the real life)....only in the blog cos I think its the right place to vent out my feelings! :)
At 10:34 AM,
Has to be me said…
Priya,
Those were so funny...esp the viagra! LOL! Good way to cut them out! Soory 2 note abt the way the desis r behind u to earn some quick bucks!!
KK,
Hmm so u r the boss eh? They dont listen 2 ya & u fume? ;)
Harish,
LOL @ ur f-i-l comment! will check out the story shortly.
At 10:36 AM,
Has to be me said…
Shuba,
Yes what 2 do indeed?!
Patty,
Thats surprising indeed! public skool system :(
White forest,
Welcome to my blog. True some ppl r made that way!
At 10:42 AM,
Has to be me said…
Ks,
I didnt know the 'poet' can be so funny too!!! But I just ignored them all as I didnt want to create a scene!
Shanthi,
Appo boss kita romba paysadaynu smile panni solitaya?! Kalaku po! Anycse better to ignore these things!
Keshi,
That was so hilarous...I was just imagining telling it to her!!!! That too she was with her friends when this incident happened!! Gosh she wud;ve turned red!!!!!!!! ha ha! I didnt do any such nasty thing for the sake of her hubby who's a good friend of mine!
And yes better not to waste time & energy arguing with ppl who r below our wavelength (like that person who called u a 16 yr old!) Anycasz enjoy ur sweet 16 & freak out even more!!!! ;)
At 10:45 AM,
Has to be me said…
Anand,
As long as u dun get annoyed with Ekta its fine!! ;)
Chandni,
Yes I've seen such characters too. Damn them!
Ekta,
Sorry 2 note abt ur colleagues! Sure it wld be so pissing!
Aditi,
Glad 2 note that u r more tolerant these days. Cool gal!
At 1:31 PM,
Aditi said…
Dont be so sure.. its just taken me a while to re-adjust to the lack of space etc in india
At 4:00 PM,
KK said…
I am the boss...yoohoo! Sounds good...I am the boss....I am the boss....I am the boss.... :)
At 4:04 PM,
Has to be me said…
Aditi,
Is it actually so difficult to readjust @ home? I m asking u this cos I dream of getting back home!
KK,
Hmmm, so I made ur day eh? Happy?! ;)
At 4:53 PM,
Anonymous said…
OMG, I would have been sooooo pissed & annoyed at all 3 if those things happend to me. Great Post! :o) Thank you so much for stopping by & for your wonderful comments! I'm glad you like my latest work, thank you so much! :o)
At 6:33 AM,
Anonymous said…
Its really annoying and irritating, all of them... though the first has never happened with me... I have faced the other two....
And I really get irritated when someone says that girls should and do work only when their famile needs some extra bucks...
At 7:18 AM,
Keshi said…
:) tnxx!
Keshi.
At 5:26 PM,
Hip Grandma said…
i get annoyed when I have to repeat a subtle joke.it takes away the charm.
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